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London, end of May, 2010

Well, the message below with my wife pretty much summed up my trip to London last week, except I did plan to go to a fish and chips place Thursday evening but went to a pub with co-workers instead. Had some finger foods there, including some fish and chips, but was told that was not the real thing. Had a bit too much to drink, I am afraid, but in general good times.

I highly recommend Golden Day, 好日子, a Hunanese restaurant on 118-120 Shaftesbury Avenue, phone number 020 7494 2381, not too far from Leicester Square, Covent Garden, Piccadilly Circus area. Here are some pictures.

干锅鸡
干锅鸡

芹菜花生米
芹菜花生米

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wife Sat, May 22, 2010 at 11:44 PM
To: Haidong Ji
Hi

Hope you could catch some sleep on the plane.
Have fun exploring London. Don’t eat too much ;-)

Mom and Ben
Haidong Ji Sun, May 23, 2010 at 10:02 AM
To: wife
Thank you honey and Ben. Your message is very much appreciated.

It was a brilliant, using a word the Brits like to use, day. Clear sky, sunshine, pleasant temperature. I went to the British Library and spent a few hours there. Too bad the Asian and African reading room is closed on Sundays. But I’ve got the see the British Library treasure exhibition, very impressive: Shakespeare’s writing (or what most people believed to be his handwriting), the Beatle’s handwritten lyrics, the Magna Carta documents, old Bible, Koran, and other religious text, including some fascinating old Chinese publications from China.

Then I went downstairs to see the Map exhibition. Once again, impressive. London is such a place with so much history and culture.

Love you both. Got a busy week ahead of me. I will probably go to a Chinese place for dinner. And I also want get some Python coding done and tested, and make plans for what I want to accomplish here.

Dad

wife Tue, May 25, 2010 at 11:38 PM
To: Haidong Ji
Hi,

How ya doin? WeRfine. (see-I’m writing in American- Hope u still understand-OK I am simply brilliant would you not say?! ) It’s been very hot (+90F) since you left. I have trouble sleeping.

We planted the potatoes yesterday. I also bought a tomato plant. You will have to help me buy some more dirt this weekend since the bags are more or less impossible for me to lift. I managed to buy four but that won’t be enough. I’ve also bought a sprinkler and a “wooden” moose now named Hälge. He’s guarding the back door.

The restaurant business is going fine.

Have you tried fish and chips yet? It’s probably a deadly sin to have been in London twice and not have tried this.

And I am really expecting you to follow the semi finals of the Eurovision song contest this week (Sweden on Thursday night-Finland did not make it to the final :-( ). It is mucho importante to all Europeans- and I really mean ALL!!!! So try to blend into the European culture while you’re there. I’m sure people aren’t talking about anything but this important event. The final is on Friday. I guess you’ll have to miss it. Too sad!

Have you responded to Alex Kw party invitation yet? It’s on Sunday so response is needed soon! I’ve bought him a card.

There will be a BBQ in Gary and Vicky’s garden on Sunday June 6th at 4pm. I was told it is cause the neighbors want to meet us………or perhaps they just like beer;-) Anyway I said we’ll be there. I did not tell her that I’m a vegetarian yet because I didn’t want anyone to feel they had to make special arrangement for me. I figure there will be more than one grill (maybe we will have bought ours by then) and I can be the master veggie grilling chef.

I will paint the walls in the sunroom tomorrow- Hawthorne pink of course.

Good night zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

Haidong Ji Wed, May 26, 2010 at 12:05 PM
To: wife
I am doing just fine. Jet lag got me on Tuesday: I set the alarm at 6:50, it woke me up. Since I didn’t go to bed around midnight and was tossing around couldn’t fall asleep for a few hours earlier, so I figured I needed 15 more minutes. That 15 minutes turned to 3 hours…

Super busy though. Planned to go to the British Library again on Tuesday, because it opens longer Tuesday nights and I’d love to visit its Asian and African reading room. But since I woke up late so I worked to mignight on Tuesday evening. Too much work, too little time.

One of my co-workers told me about a good fish and chips place so I will probably go there tonight.

The Brits are a bit snobbish toward people from the Continent so I think they tend to have a sarcastic view towards it because they never win.

I will write to the KWs tonight. Nice to have a bbq over the weekends. Yeah, we should get a grill before then.

Terrific that the potatoes and tomatos are in. Hawthorne yellow is fine. Thanks.

Got to go back to work. Did I say I have been very busy?

Love.

wife Wed, May 26, 2010 at 10:54 PM
To: Haidong Ji
Hi,

I’m sorry you’re tired and too busy. Hope it’ll be better today.

Here it is still HOT. I take cold showers before I go to bed.

Almost finished the walls in the sunroom- only have the hard to paint places left to do.

I hope it will rain tonight. If not the lawn will need to be watered soon.

I bought a cordless electrical lawn mower from Sears (WORX ECO WG780 19-Inch 24-Volt Cordless Electric Lawn Mower). The “sale” price is $450 (Ordinary price $550). The price at Amazon is the same. However since the mower is not sold by Amazon I would have to pay shipping charges +$50 if I bought it from there. AT sears I can pick it up at the store in 9-11 days. I also get an additional $100 mail in rebate which is nice since the cheapest cordless lawn mowers start around $350. It has good reviews and is supposedly good at mulching (cutting the grass in very small pieces-the grass can then be left on the lawn- will save a fortune since won’t need to use so many yard waste bags) http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0015GH5UG/ref=s9_simh_gw_p86_i1?pf_rd_m=ATVPDKIKX0DER&pf_rd_s=center-2&pf_rd_r=1AB1J4GST8XJ09YV78QB&pf_rd_t=101&pf_rd_p=470938631&pf_rd_i=507846

Please let me know that you have RSVPed to Alex Kw. It would be very rude not to have done so by now.

I’m doing laundry right now. I think i should move the bed down to the basement. It’s very nice and cool there.

I’m running out of meaningful things to tell you so…good night, sleep tight and don’t let he British bed bugs bite.

Haidong Ji Thu, May 27, 2010 at 5:08 AM
To: wife
Thanks a lot for the note, honey. I appreciate it very much. Nobody here seems willing to lend a shoulder for me to cry a river. What a cruel, cruel world it is…

Read through reviews for the mower. Looks nice. Thanks.

Anyway, went out for supper with a Chinese-Malaysian coworker at Golden Day. The guy does not drink. I hope he liked the food, although he did say the chicken was a bit spicy. Later we had bubble tea with the sago balls, and talked a bit about work, citizenship, green card, and such. Went back to the hotel and worked for a few more hours. I guess my Python prowess will improve if I keep at it like this.

Talked a bit about Eurovision song contest with a British co-worker. She thinks the whole thing is a bit political, and some people would watch this old fart making sarcastic and funny comments about it on TV. She mimicked last year’s winner’s violin playing, which was pretty funny. She told me Andrew Lloyd Webber wrote some songs for the event last year and did an active publicity campaign for it. This morning I picked up a copy of Daily Mail somebody left on the train to read, a practice that I’ve seen a number of people do, and didn’t see mention of the contest. It was all about a serial killer, David Cameron’s tax policy, Fergie and Sharon Osborn is even “bigger” in Hollywood now.

Speaking of the subway, the tube I took was absolutely packed in the morning a bit after 8:00. I did notice there are other lines that had a bit more room.

Will probably go for a fish and chips fare tonight. Hopefully I can catch a bit of the song contest and cheer on for my Swedish brethren.

Looked at a grocery market chain, the day I arrived, Sandbury’s (spelling?). Pretty decent selections. I debated if I should buy toothpaste there, but I got a dental kit from the hotel so that wasn’t necessary. I did notice no toothpaste advertising “whitening”, which I like. I looked for a type of regular toothpaste that does NOT advertising “whitening” in Chicago but couldn’t find it! Who knows what kind of rubbish they put in for this dubious “whitening” claim?

Had lunch at a butcher’s shop yesterday, went for the British Cornish, it was pretty good.

Seen this guy setting up his fruit stand on High Holbon street for a few days in a row now and hawking his ware. He was shouting some fruit names, I think, but I didn’t quite get it.

Haven’t seen a department store yet. I want to buy underwear here as the comfortable ones I got in Sweden a few years ago became a bit, shall we say, scanty.
I shall remember to get some crisps for Ben. Yeah, I did reply to the KWs, informing them our new address as well.

Should go back to work now. Later, give a hug to Ben for me.

Love

wife Fri, May 28, 2010 at 12:17 AM
To: Haidong Ji
Hi,

The fender on the car was damaged today when parked at Home Depot. It was hit by a truck from Stoughton Trucking. It’s not badly damaged. One corner is scratched and dented. The driver waited outside until i came out from the store. He has my information and I has the contact information for the safety supervisor at that company. Hopefully, everything will be taken care of smoothly.

I had a message from the realtor today. The village is arranging “bike to open houses” day on June 13th. She wants the house to be available for showings on that day. I will just tell her that’s OK but I can’t guarantee this place will be cleaned up.

I might be in the house painting tomorrow when you get home. Give me a call.

Hope you have a nice flight home.

See ya tomorrow dude.

Your dudette

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Oops…I did it again!

抱歉了,小甜甜。

今天又潇洒骑一回,搞得气喘吁吁,香汗淋淋。

我的车子,用家乡话说,叫小轮车。小轮车一般都是手闸,载人载物的后座稍小一点,并且后座上有带弹簧的夹子,好放点小东西,比较方便。车链子一般有链盒。车座是黑皮的。该车有独腿。车前把一般是平的。主要的牌子就是飞鸽、永久和凤凰。这种车,一般都是帅哥骑。帅哥骑高兴了,会来段大撒把,潇洒!该车是八十年代初的结婚三大件之一(洋车子,手表和缝纫机)。八十年代中后期,竟然开始有没大梁的小轮车,非农业的小孩会有,让我羡慕了很久。倒忘了都有什么牌子了。小轮车,骑起来,不蹬时,能听到车轮沙沙地响。

有小轮车,就得有大轮车。大轮车有脚闸,是后闸,前闸还是手闸,但一般不用。这种车有后支架。停车时,把后支架踢下,支撑起后轮。后支架左侧有弹簧,踢进去后有稳固支架的作用。该种车的后座较大,在后座两侧和前后会有弯钩,便于用绳子捆绑一些物品,像一袋子面呀,篮子啦,麻袋啦,赶集时买卖的一些商品等。这种车,特别是(好像只有)后轮的轮轴,会有加油的地方。那加油的口上会有个小盖儿,往侧面一掰,露出那个小眼儿。然后你拿着长嘴的小铁皮油葫芦,对准小眼儿,用大拇指在油壶底下摁几下加油,之后盖上小盖儿,就完了。这种车前把在中间往下弯,车座是皮革制成,很硬。一般是中年人骑,是当时一个家庭的非常重要的资产之一。有意思的是,儿子还很小,刘翔在希腊雅典奥运夺冠的时候,我们全家三口人在瑞典的Öland岛上租了一间小屋住了几天,竟然看到了漆成绿色的大轮车。我忘了自己有没有骑。好像那是瑞典陆军更换装备后淘汰的车子。顺便说一句,在野外的夏天租一个小屋(Stuga,cabin的意思)住几天,是很流行的瑞典休假方式。

我小的时候,家里有一个大金鹿,十几岁的时候,家里买了辆二手的小轮永久。

如今的车子,和我小时后的车子比,车把都很活。并且喃,为保持流线,身子要往前探很多,所以我过了段时间才适应。我今天的速度比昨天下降了些。今天去时平均每小时15.81公里,来时平均16.50公里。昨天的相应值分别是18.60和18.35。看来我当“快男”是不可能了,要做“慢男”,还是很有竞争力的。回家后,老婆做了炒白菜和炒鸡蛋犒劳我。菜本来就很不错,这又锻炼了下,吃嘛嘛香!

我骑着我的小轮车,累了,坐直了单手扶把歇一小会儿,还不大敢玩儿大撒把。不蹬时,能听到车轮沙沙地响。

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Getting closer to the elements

Well, after talking about it, I finally put my feet where the pedals were, and biked to work today.

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My Novara, the front facing one.

My original plan was to find time riding in on a weekend for some field research. But with the move, house painting (where my wife did most of the work), teaching my son Chinese, my son’s baseball, and other family activities, I couldn’t find the time. This morning I woke up a bit after 5 and decided, what the hell, might as well take it all the way today!

It was not bad at all. In fact, I enjoyed the whole thing. Going in: total distance 14.69km, average speed 18.60km/hr, peak speed 25.13km/hr, total time 47 minutes. Coming back: total distance 14.29km, average speed 18.35km/hr, peak speed 27.93km/hr, total time 46 minutes. Thanks Liz for riding with me on the way back. It’s nice to have a partner returning with you, with more people milling out and about than in the morning.

Well, I went to work without shaving, breakfast and shower. Not that I am set out to win a bushy beard competition or anything like that. While I am at it, I gave up on hairy chest competition long time ago. I’ve got to say, it’s not bad. I was a bit tired in the early afternoon. A quick snack of a banana and cheese stick provided enough fuel on the way back. I did save up a set of toothbrush and toothpaste at work. It’s good to brush after lunch anyway.

I am really excited and look forward to do more of it! Time to bed. Early to bed and early to rise makes a man healthy, wealthy, and wise. 早睡早起身体好!

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与你到永久

明天是美国母亲节。我如乡随俗,挑一首歌,献给我的母亲和妻子,我眼中最美、聪慧、善良、坚韧、勇敢、勤劳、充满爱心、积极向上的两位女人,祝母亲节快乐!

伍佰这哥们儿不简单。最下面是这首歌的MTV,取自土豆网。

与你到永久
词、曲:伍佰

风儿轻轻的吹
雨也绵绵下个不停
望着走过的脚印
有崎岖有平静
看着你的眼睛
我最熟悉的表情
一路上有你
因为有了你
人生旅程不再冷清

迎着风
迎向远方的天空
路上也有艰难
也有那解脱
都走得从容
因为你是我
生命中的所有
将我的心放在你手中
陪你到永久

花儿开在雨中
雨水溅湿你的眼眸
怕我说得太晚
让你如此的承担
面对岁月的河
对你已经无法割舍
我是爱着你
深深爱着你
一首属于我俩的歌

迎着风
迎向远方的天空
路上也有艰难
也有那解脱
都走得从容

因为你是我
生命中的所有
将我的心放在你手中
陪你到永久

生命有了你
我已经无所求
将我的心放在你手中
陪你到永久

整个的心放在你手中
与你到永久

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还是忙

今天刷完一间屋。这个很有挑战性:三种颜色,贴胶纸要整齐,很费时。然后大小滚轮齐上。先刷一遍,等晾干后再刷一遍。把我们两口子忙得不轻,但即使这样,还是有些暇痞。感谢老婆,她做了很多周到、详细的工作。

我自己也搬了不少纸箱子。就想小时候干这样的活,要把裤腰杀紧俩扣,往手心呸呸吐两口唾沫,搓一搓,蹲下,抠住东西的角,喝一声:“起!”,也不一定起得来,还得要人“发”一下,才扛得动。我一个人弄老婆打好的包,好在她买了个小平板车,我只是把纸箱子搬到小车上,摞起来推着走,省了不少力。但也是弄得腰酸腿疼。当然干了一天活,如果晚上能端个小酒盅,夹上眼喝上一小口辣酒,抹抹嘴角,把两根筷子往桌子上一撞后码齐了,叨上几口地蛋丝儿或白菜猪肉粉条,和家人拉个呱,人生快意,尽享其中了。但像那种日子,与我来说,十几年前就一去不复返了。即使想重温,也不太会有那样的机会和场合。当然那稍微有点理想化,因为不同的时代有不同的烦恼和喜悦。老婆倒是买了些地蛋芽子,说不准今年我们能吃上自己种的地蛋。她老是说美国的地蛋不如瑞典的地蛋好吃。

原打算五月初搬利索。我估计两个星期后能搞定就算好得很了。

也变着法儿给儿子上中文课,但我在方法和态度上还需要很大的提高。总是很忙,没时间,但又不能牺牲睡眠时间来熬夜。都快四十的人了,睡眠不足,第二天的投入就是问题,对不起别人,也对不起自己。

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